A–E were crammed under #7 as subtypes. They're not subtypes of anything. They're their own dimension — the relational dynamic. How she positions herself. What he expects from her. Separate from behavior (#1–7) and separate from daily structure.
| Dimension | What It Answers | Labels |
|---|---|---|
| Her Ask | What does she want from him regarding other women? | 1–7 |
| His Declaration | Who is he honestly? | 1–7 |
| The Understanding | What's the relational dynamic between them? | A–E |
| Daily Life | How much structure does she live under? | I / II / III |
His Structure (old A/B/C) renamed to Daily Life using Roman numerals I/II/III to avoid collision with The Understanding's A–E.
Both sides pick independently. Her pick = what she accepts. His pick = what he expects. Mismatches are flagged.
| Her Side | His Side | Core | |
|---|---|---|---|
| A | Just Be Honest With Me | I'll Tell You Everything | Honesty |
| B | Can I Be Your #1? | Be My #1 | Priority |
| C | I Accept I Am One of Many | Be One of Mine | Acceptance |
| D | I Will Wait | Be Patient | Patience |
| E | Just Keep Me Going | Just Be There | Survival |
| Name | What It Means | |
|---|---|---|
| I | Full Structure | Home → School → Job → Home. GPS-verified. |
| II | Guided Autonomy | Freedom with approval for activities outside routine. |
| III | Full Autonomy | Live your life. Support without daily control. |
Her Ask + His Declaration + Understanding + Daily Life
| Example | What It Means |
|---|---|
1 + 1 + A + I | Monogamy, one woman, full honesty, full structure. Both all in. |
4 + 3 + A + II | She wants to know. He supports others. Honest about it. Guided autonomy. |
7 + 7 + B + I | Bahala ka + ako. She's his #1. Full structure. Total trust, total commitment. |
3 + 5 + C + III | Don't want to know. He does it all. One of many. Full autonomy. |
5 + 7 + D + II | She wants to join. He does it all. She'll wait her turn. Guided autonomy. |
7 + 7 + E + III | Both bahala. Bare minimum. Full autonomy. Survival support, no demands. |